Frequently Asked Questions

At the moment, it is only available on iOS.

Yes! Connect To Me is 100% free. You don't need to make an account, give your email address or phone number. There is absolutely no risk in trying our product out. Our goal is to help improve your dating life and deepen your connection with your partner/spouse.

We built Connect To Me to help people continue the exciting process of discovery, whether it's on a first date or in a long-term relationship.

If you are new to dating...

It can be stressful to avoid awkward silences and find meaningful things to talk about. Connect To Me takes the pressure off by using what you already know about your date—their interests, hobbies, or a fun story you've heard—to generate unique questions and conversation starters. This helps you build a genuine connection and make your dates more fun.

If you are in an established relationship...

It can feel like you already know everything about your partner, and the conversations you once had are gone. But the reality is, you can never know someone completely. Our AI bot is designed to create personalized "discovery questions" that spark new conversations and keep the connection building. It's a fun and easy way to reignite curiosity and keep learning more about each other.

With Connect To Me, you're not just having a conversation—you're building a stronger bond.

Not at all. Connect To Me is designed for everyone, whether you are just starting to date, in a new relationship, or looking to reignite the spark in a long-term partnership. Our tools are adaptable to every stage of your dating journey.

We go far beyond a basic list of questions. Our entire purpose is to help you feel more comfortable and connected, and we do that by turning what you know about each other into conversation fuel.

Here is how it works:

• You tell us: You provide our AI with key insights about your partner or date—from a shared hobby to a funny story you've heard. We use this unique data as the building blocks for our questions.
• Our AI Generates: Instead of pulling from a pre-written bank, our generative AI crafts a custom personalized conversation idea just for you. This ensures that every question is a one-of-a-kind discovery opportunity that you can't find anywhere else.
• You Connect: Our questions are designed to be open-ended, vulnerable, and fun. They encourage storytelling, spark specific memories, and help you and your partner learn something new about each other—even after you think you know everything.

Ultimately, we want to help you be yourself. By giving you a constant stream of conversation ideas tailored to your connection, we eliminate the fear of awkward silences and give you the confidence to truly bond.

Because we were built for you.

As someone who has been in your shoes—nervous about first dates and dedicated to building a lasting connection—our founder created Connect To Me to solve his own dating challenges. He knew that relying on generic advice wasn't enough. Instead, he spent years researching the science of relationships to create a tool that is grounded in empathy and proven communication strategies.

Whether you're navigating the early stages of a new connection or want to deepen the bond you already share, Connect To Me gives you the tools to talk comfortably and build a connection you can be proud of.

There is absolutely no risk behind using Connect To Me. You don't need an account, give an email, or give a phone number—this app is for anyone who wants to improve their dating life and relationships.

We have many big plans in the future on what we will continue building in our startup. Our goal, as already stated, is to help anybody in their relationships.

Yes, we use the questions our AI generates to improve our service. Your privacy and security are our top priorities, and we want to be completely transparent about how we handle your information.

Here is what you need to know:

• We only collect the AI generated questions. Your privacy is respected. We never collect any personally identifiable information (PII) about you or your partner, and all data is completely anonymized.
• You control your input. The "known facts" you provide to our AI are the most valuable part of your experience. Because this information is highly personal, you have the option to opt out of providing it for training purposes.
• We never sell or share your data. Your information will never be sold to or shared with a third party. Our commitment is to you and your relationship.

You can learn more by reading our full privacy policy.

We designed Connect To Me to help you connect with your partner anywhere, anytime—even without an internet connection. This is why we created two distinct versions.

• The Online Generator: This is the full power of Connect To Me. It uses a cloud-based AI to generate a brand-new, unique question based on the facts you provide. This version has no limit and will always provide new, creative questions to spark conversation.
• The Offline Generator: The offline version is a convenience feature for when you're without an internet connection. It comes with thousands of preloaded questions designed to help you continue building your connection with your partner, no matter where you are.

Both versions use powerful machine learning to help you find that deeper connection. The biggest difference is that one is limited only by its creativity, while the other is always available for you.

That's fantastic! We are always looking for ways to improve Connect To Me and bring the best experience to our users. Your ideas are incredibly valuable in helping us build the best possible product.

To submit a feature suggestion, please follow these simple steps within the app:

1. Tap the "Profile" icon.
2. Go to "Help & Feedback," then select "Give feedback / Report a bug."
3. Choose the "Feature Request" option and describe your idea.

Thank you for helping us make Connect To Me even better!

While many apps provide things like questions, quizzes, or conversations, Connect To Me is the only one that uses generative AI to create a truely personalized experience.

Think of it this way:

Other Apps

• Question Bank: They pull questions from a pre-written database. These questions are great, but they are the same for everyone.
• One-Size-Fits-All: Questions like "What's your favorite travel memory?" are a good start, but they don't get all the unique detials that make a connection truely special.
• Focus on the Surface: They are often great for breaking the ice or passing the time, but they don't always help you uncover the deep, personal insights that build lasting trust.
• Meant for Estbalished Relationships Mostly: Many apps assume this is for established relationships, while Connect To Me is meant to help anybody, even if it is someone who is trying to make a relationship.

Connect To Me

• Generative AI: You provide our AI with what you already know about your date or partner—their hobbies, interests, quirks, or stories you've heard. Our AI then creates brand-new, unique questions based on that specific information.
• Hyper-Personalization: Instead of asking a generic question about travel, our AI might generate: "I know you're a big fan of the national parks. What's one memory from your trip to Yosemite that you could talk about all day?" This shows you've been listening and paying attention.
• Builds Real Connection: Our questions are designed to move beyond the surface and help you discover new layers of your partner's personality. We don't just ask questions; we give you a tool to strengthen your bond by making your partner feel truly seen and understood.

We're not just a list of questions—we're a conversational engine designed to help you turn knowledge into connection. Whether you're navigating the early stages of a relationship or are already committed, we give you the tools to avoid awkward silences and build a stronger foundation.

At the moment, Connect To Me only supports English.

Connect To Me goes beyond a basic list of restaurants and movies. Our date finder is designed to help you create an experience that truly fits your connection.

You can input your date's interests, your budget, and the general vibe you're looking for. Our AI then combines this information to suggest personalized date ideas and locations that you can either book directly or save for later. Whether you're looking for a low-key picnic, a creative cooking class, or a fun way to explore a new neighborhood, Connect To Me helps you find a date idea that is as unique as your relationship.

Plus, research shows that engaging in shared experiences builds trust and deepens the bond between partners [1][2][3]. By giving both your's and your date's interests, Connect To Me can help suggest great activities both of you can enjoy, and help you build a strong foundation for your relationship through meaningful, collaborative moments.

• [1] Dolan, Eric W. "Shared Reality in Romantic Relationships Reduces Uncertainty and Boosts Meaning in Life, Study Finds." PsyPost - Psychology News, PsyPost, 29 Jan. 2025, www.psypost.org/shared-reality-in-romantic-relationships-reduces-uncertainty-and-boosts-meaning-in-life-study-finds/.
• [2] Jolly E, Tamir DI, Burum B, Mitchell JP. Wanting without enjoying: The social value of sharing experiences. PLoS One. 2019 Apr 18;14(4):e0215318. doi: 10.1371/journal.pone.0215318. PMID: 30998766; PMCID: PMC6472755.
• [3] Min, Kate & Liu, Peggy & Kim, Soo. (2018). Sharing Extraordinary Experiences Fosters Feelings of Closeness. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin. 44. 014616721773307. 10.1177/0146167217733077.

No, we are not a dating app. We don't have a swiping or matching feature. We're a tool designed to help you build and deepen connections with the people you've already met on dating apps, through friends, or in person.

Yes, Connect To Me is safe to use! We prioritize your privacy and security. Here's how we ensure your data stays protected:

• We do not collect personally identifiable information (PII) such as your name, email, or IP address, and data is encrypted with industry-standard protocols. We never share or sell collected data with anyone, and this data does not contain any PII or anything that can be linked to you.
• Our app is reviewed and approved by Apple and follows their rigorous security standard.